Some of the single girls wanted to know what to do with pop up chats on their social websites, like facebook.
First of all the person who pops up probably likes you sexually. Which means what you look like to the lower area of the opposite sex is very stimulated. You know what I mean....
So, if the person (guy) has never spoken to you before through a comment or message just know its probably a quick, easy fix for someone to try to hook you in to a easy tryst.
So don't be surprised if the chat goes in the direction of "sex". Don't expect a date out of it. Don't expect a relationship out of it. Don't expect a nice, respectful type of guy to come out of pop up chats. They usually start with "Hey" or "Hey Babe".
Are you suppose to chat back? Not if it starts with "sexemestry" type of words or conversation.
Even if it starts out, "What are you doing?" = really means bring on the sexual conversation so I can be turned on by you.
If that is exciting for you go for it. If you are looking for a nice person to date then test the chat out to see if he will ask you out on a date. If the conversation is just cheeky, wicked fun then you are most likely one of several fish in the sea (girls on facebook) that he is trying to have a sexual encounter with. Either by flirty words, chat interaction and eventually get you into a easy, quick hook up.
Demand more for yourself. Even if the guy is hot, cute, young or a model, test him to see if he is really a friend or wants to be facebook "friend with benefits". Even on line, chats are friends with benefits. Typing is a sexual flirtation and turn on in these modern times.
So be safe on the Internet and still keep friends friends and "sexemestry" a safe distance. You don't have to add or answer everybody. If they speak to you in a polite, respectful manner then you can reply. After all, Mr. Right would do this to you so why would you let Mr. Wrong bug you like this.
Cheers,
Tulip, Teasley and Tea-Cup
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Teasley, Teacup, Tulip & a Dog named Dizz
