Some of the single girls wanted to know what to do with pop up chats on their social websites, like facebook.
First of all the person who pops up probably likes you sexually. Which means what you look like to the lower area of the opposite sex is very stimulated. You know what I mean....
So, if the person (guy) has never spoken to you before through a comment or message just know its probably a quick, easy fix for someone to try to hook you in to a easy tryst.
So don't be surprised if the chat goes in the direction of "sex". Don't expect a date out of it. Don't expect a relationship out of it. Don't expect a nice, respectful type of guy to come out of pop up chats. They usually start with "Hey" or "Hey Babe".
Are you suppose to chat back? Not if it starts with "sexemestry" type of words or conversation.
Even if it starts out, "What are you doing?" = really means bring on the sexual conversation so I can be turned on by you.
If that is exciting for you go for it. If you are looking for a nice person to date then test the chat out to see if he will ask you out on a date. If the conversation is just cheeky, wicked fun then you are most likely one of several fish in the sea (girls on facebook) that he is trying to have a sexual encounter with. Either by flirty words, chat interaction and eventually get you into a easy, quick hook up.
Demand more for yourself. Even if the guy is hot, cute, young or a model, test him to see if he is really a friend or wants to be facebook "friend with benefits". Even on line, chats are friends with benefits. Typing is a sexual flirtation and turn on in these modern times.
So be safe on the Internet and still keep friends friends and "sexemestry" a safe distance. You don't have to add or answer everybody. If they speak to you in a polite, respectful manner then you can reply. After all, Mr. Right would do this to you so why would you let Mr. Wrong bug you like this.
Cheers,
Tulip, Teasley and Tea-Cup
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Book Yourself A Little Vacation

Twitter yourself to a low fare flight by following United Air. Just "retweet" for a ticket giveaway.
If you don't win you helped other people to know about cheap flights and maybe a new follower, thats a hunk.
Check farecompare.com as well.
When your on a vacation you tend to be more open to have fun and you are a little "more" fun yourself. Everyone likes talking to strangers if they are on a vacation and people like to talk to tourists. So, chat away.
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Friday, May 21, 2010

Are all the ladies getting ready for "Sex In the City 2"? Okay, if your single and not married you might wishing you've met your Mr. Big, but heck this will be a fun movie to keep your mind off not meeting Mr. Right, yet.
Have you signed up at plentyoffish.com? Let me know how things are working out.
People are finding great success on facebook, too.
Or get a dog and bring it to parks or beaches to meet singletons. If all else fails start going to baseball, football or basketball games. That's still where traditional males go! You got to be where the boys are. Now, go. Look, I got my man! Captain Taylor Long-John.
Somethings got to give.
Until then you have your friends
Tissley, Tulip and Tea cup every month to cuddle up with.
xoxo
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